Have you ever felt that you needed to do something because of an obligation or meet another's expectations? Did you feel as energised as when you were doing something just for the sheer pleasure it would bring you? How about the goals you set for yourself. Do you work toward these with energy, or do they lose relevance for you? Do they become a chore? Do they de-energise you after a while? Is your feeling about your work goals different from your personal goals? We're talking about what drives us to action, what energises us, what underlies our behaviour. Leading researchers Richard Ryan and Edward Deci identified motivation is along a continuum of the level of autonomy we feel we have over our actions. Their research highlights that when we are autonomously motivated, when we feel what we are doing reflects and aligns with our values and interests, we will more likely experience success and be absorbed. The more we feel controlled, where we feel coerced or pressured into something or even where we feel internally pressured or compelled to act, the less likely we will be to put in the energy need to achieve the goal and less likely will experience success. So how does this explain your answers to the questions I posed? Its more than likely that what you start and don't complete, or what you find tiresome to complete, is not autonomously motivated, something that you freely choose to do. Some form of extrinsic motivation could drive the goal, and you may not even be aware that what you are doing does not genuinely reflect and align with your values and interests. You might be saying to yourself, why would anyone set a personal goal not aligned with their values and interests?. Let's take a simple example; buying a gift for a friend. Some people will spend months seeking out the perfect gift whereas others will leave purchasing a gift to the last minute. The first person is most likely intrinsically motivated; they enjoy the experience of gift selection, it's important to them that they find the right gift, getting the right gift is a core value of celebrating their friendship. The person who leaves their gift selection to the last minute may be extrinsically motivated. Extrinsic motivation runs on a scale ranging from "I'm obliged to buy them a gift because I'm going to their party, so can't turn up without one" to "Oh, I should get a gift, almost forgot". You can tell the later may be extrinsically motivated, albeit limited, because of a social obligation: "should". Yet we may not even note the duty. Now stop and think about why you go out and buy stuff. Is it to meet your need or to keep up with or impress others? Being extrinsically motivated is widespread; some may say it drives all of our actions. Take work as an example: there are things we do as part of our job because we really enjoy them and then there are things we avoid doing, something that we find draining. We can't avoid some aspects of our work; otherwise we wouldn't have the job. The challenge is to try and structure the work we do to move closer to being intrinsically motivated. One way of doing this is to link the extrinsically motivated activities to an outcome that is meaningful to us or doing the work in a way that draws on our strengths. So let's return to your goals for 2021, perhaps expressed as a New Year's resolution. What is the chance that you achieve these goals? If you are intrinsically motivated toward the goal, if it holds deep meaning for you, you will be more likely to achieve the goal. Suppose the goal is extrinsically motivated. For example, I should lose weight and get fit (a typical New Year's resolution quickly abandoned by many). You need to consider why you are putting effort into the goal. Are you seeking to lose weight because you feel obliged to do so for the sake of someone else? If so, you need to find a way to build meaning into achieving the goal for yourself, perhaps as a pathway to a meaningful goal, such as being able to kick a football or play physical games with your kids. As a coach, I find I often come across the dissonance created by extrinsic motivation. People seek to achieve a goal or behave in a certain way not because it is core to their values but because it is to please others. If you would like to explore your goals, please feel free to reach out to me, even book some time in my calendar using the link below.
Research highlights the value of having a coach to support you build the resources to make a purposeful change. Choosing the right coach to act as your companion can be the difference between making it or abandoning your journey. A good coach is a deep listener, positive, enthusiastic, supportive, trusting, focused, goal-oriented, knowledgeable, observant, respectful, patient, empathetic (not sympathetic) and precise communicator. These characteristics need to be honed through training and ongoing supervision to ensure the coach has the skills to support you manage the tensions associated with personal change and maintain the objective perspective needed to navigate the tense conversations that are characteristic of coaching. Below are links to two articles that will provide greater depth on the impact of the different forms of motivation's on your behaviour. I hope they provide you with greater insight. References Ryan, R. M., & Deci, E. L. (2017). Self-determination theory: Basic psychological needs in motivation, development, and wellness (1st ed.). New York: Guilford Publications. Self-Determination Theory's Taxonomy of Motivation https://www.facebook.com/selfdeterminationtheory/photos/pb.139680956787.-2207520000.1524968011./10156282583171788/?type=3&theater
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2020 saw remote working explode to enable many organisations to support their customers whilst reducing health risks to employees. Observers have noted mixed outcomes in terms of productivity and satisfaction of remote working. As we enter 2021 millions of people continue to work remotely by choice or to comply with health orders. Success in a workplace requires us to manage relationships, build social networks and manage our productivity. Most of us are good at managing these dynamics in a physical workplace but working remotely creates new dynamics that some people find more challenging. Success in remote work requires two fundamental competencies: remote productivity and remote communication. All those who work remotely and/or manage those who work remotely need to hone these competencies to ensure that they are effective. The good news is that we can strengthen these competencies. Change starts with being clear on strengths and developmental opportunities and then leveraging strengths and enhancing opportunities. The Harrison Remote Work questionnaire, debriefed in a 30-minute goal-setting session, provides an excellent starting point. Evidence-based coaching can provide the support you need to secure lasting change. Research highlights the value of having a coach to support you build the resources to make a purposeful change. Choosing a coach to act as your companion can be the difference between making it or abandoning your journey. A good coach is a deep listener, positive, enthusiastic, supportive, trusting, focused, goal-oriented, knowledgeable, observant, respectful, patient, empathetic (not sympathetic) and precise communicator. These characteristics need to be honed through training and ongoing supervision to ensure the coach has the skills to support you manage the tensions associated with personal change and maintain the objective perspective needed to navigate the tense conversations that are characteristic of coaching.
Learn more about remote working by booking an introductory chat or visiting the Set to Change website So like many people you’ve made a New Year’s resolution, setting yourself some goals for the opportunity offered by 2021. You probably set yourself some goals for 2020, which you feel were thwarted by the pandemic and other events outside your control. The good news is you are not alone; many faced insurmountable challenges in 2020! The even better news is there are ways you can achieve your goals even when faced with what might appear on the first look as unconquerable barriers. Achieving your goals is about having personal resources to sustain our efforts. Often we find it difficult to see the resources available to us when we feel blocked. Our thinking may become black or white, removing the ability to see pathways and the resources we need for success. This robs us of the opportunity to move forward, leaving us stuck where we were: in 2020! Research highlights the value of having a coach to support you build the resources to make purposeful change. Choosing a coach to act as your companion can be the difference between making it or abandoning your journey. A good coach is a deep listener, positive, enthusiastic, supportive, trusting, focused, goal-oriented, knowledgeable, observant, respectful, patient, empathetic (not sympathetic) and clear communicator. These characteristics need to be honed through training and ongoing supervision to ensure the coach has the skills to support you manage the tensions associated with personal change and maintain the objective perspective needed to manage the tense conversations that are characteristic of coaching. This article highlights some of the roadblocks to change. Have a read and if you would like to explore how coaching can support your journey in 2021 book an introductory session or send me a message, and I’ll reply to set up a time to chat. #coaching #leadership #change #mindset #culturechange #mindsetmatters#mindsetshift #leadershipdevelopment #mindsetcoaching#employeeengagement #strategicleadership #innovationculture#innovationleadership #mindfulness #innovation #success#personaldevelopment #motivation #inspiration #opportunity #growth#innovate #culture
We often start with good intentions to make purposeful change in our lives, yet find that we abandon our journey. The personal resources available to us can impact our choice to leave our journey because we feel we cannot address our challenges. We lose our focus on what our life will be like once we achieve our goal or don’t receive feedback journey is worthwhile. We lose our opportunity! Research highlights the value of having a coach to support you in making purposeful change. Choosing a coach to act as your companion can be the difference between making it or abandoning your purposeful change journey. A good coach is positive, enthusiastic, supportive, trusting, focused, goal-oriented, knowledgeable, observant, respectful, patient, empathetic (not sympathetic) and a clear communicator; qualities demonstrated by many. These characteristics need to be honed through training and ongoing supervision to ensure the coach is competent to support people manage the tensions associated with personal change and maintain the objective perspective needed to help another during the tense conversations that are characteristic of coaching. The article you can access through the button below highlights some of the roadblocks to change. Have a read and if you would like to explore how coaching can support your journey in 2021 book an introductory session or send me a message, and I’ll reply to set up a time to chat. |
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